Relationship Issues

Not sure if your relationship is worth saving? Do you think you could use couples therapy but your partner isn’t on board? Or are you ready for a real relationship, but feeling frustrated that it never seems to work out?

It can be really draining when things aren't working in your relationships. Maybe you and your partner are fighting a lot and you're not really feeling heard. Or, everything seems good (on paper, at least) but for some reason you just can't get excited for the future. Or maybe you're single, deep in the hellscape that is modern dating and feeling pretty over it. Whatever the situation, it's easy to start wondering if the problem is you.

Sometimes what you need most is someone on the outside – not a friend, not a family member – who can help you sort through what's actually happening. Together, we'll get curious about the patterns that are keeping you stuck so that you can move forward with clarity and confidence. At the end of our work together, different people end up in different places. One client came in on the brink of divorce and completely changed the dynamic of her marriage. When I asked what made the difference, she said: 'I just started saying no.' Others finally find the words to say 'this isn't acceptable' – and mean it. Some decide to leave. Some find their person and ride off into the (metaphorical) sunset. What they share is that they stopped wondering and started knowing.

You deserve to stop wondering. Let's figure this out together.